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Contents 1 Divorced Dads Survival Guide 2 When It Comes To Divorce Law and You - 3 Here Are The Facts 4 Divorce Resources

Divorced Dads Survival Guide

Dear Friend, (and trust me when I say you will need one)

If you are one of the 1% of men who actually believe they can navigate the waters of divorce with simple and effective adult conversation with your (soon to be) ex, this site is not for you. In fact, call a mediator immediately and sit down and reach an understanding as soon as possible.

However, if you are among the remaining 99%, please listen carefully because...

…you are about to engage in the fight of your life…

No, you are not asking for it. You may not even want it. But, it is part of your new reality and a very real part of the process you are about to enter.

With just the slightest twist and turn of events in a relationship, a happy marriage can crumble to an ugly, nasty divorce in seconds flat. And, don’t think it can’t happen to you because it can and will…just like it happens to normal ‘nice guys’ every day of the week…every month of the year. History does repeat itself in matters of marriage and divorce.

You may or may not remember those affectionate, warm loving feelings you once had as you watched your bride at the alter or the beach or the park on that memorable day. So many details, so much emotion, so many happy memories.

But, If you have found this page, then those memories are fading quickly and happiness turns immediately into very real feelings of pain, disgust, frustration and even bitterness. But, here’s when your bad news just gets worse.

Divorce is about Self Preservation…

Nothing More…

Instinctually, men and women are different and you know it.

Women resort to playing the part of the helpless victim in need of support from their family members (who can be in large numbers like a pack of wolves ready to take you out). They operate off of high emotion. It is in their DNA. And, when the love is lost or worse yet...you decide you want out...well...guess what...that emotion turns to a battle of revenge.

Trust me...there is not a man on the face of the earth who would gladly be in your shoes. Not even for a moment.

Is it wrong? Hell ya...but it doesn't make it any less true.

Men don't think this way. They have a different set of DNA and their mind is thinking...'well..surely she will want to preserve as much capital from the marriage as I do'...'protect the future of our kids education'...'keep more money in our pockets for the long term'. Right?

And, if you are also thinking...'maybe she will just sit down with me and logically just split up what we have together and come to a nice mutual understanding'....boy, we really need to talk...

Here's the cold hard facts...every man better know or you're in for a very rude awakening.

Divorce is unfair, bitter, ugly and nasty...and the process does not favor MEN...

If you are you a man facing divorce...don't worry I can help you.

It is literally shocking to me how many men who are considering divorce have absolutely no plan. Every man ever met that complains about his divorce settlement absolutely did not prepare properly. These people relied on advice from friends, relatives, and their lawyer. If only they had taken the time to educate themselves. It is as if they went into battle without an army. Do not let this be you!

I’ve interviewed so many divorced men...the ones that won (and the losers).  I especially listened to the successful men.  Divorce advice for men can be a very tricky thing, depending on who you choose to listen to. Divorce can either give you a new lease on life or it can leave you in financial ruin for years. How you go through your divorce will have a major impact on the rest of your life. 

Why is it that so many men struggle after a divorce while other men prosper...even thrive?  Fortunately, success leaves clues.  Whenever you take advice from anybody concerning men and divorce, make sure they have actually walked the walk.  I have...in a brutal way.

I'm Throwing You a Life Line...

Question is...Will You Grab It?

I'm not sure what your situation is, but in mine, everything started off cordial and nice, and quickly turned bad from there.  What started off with an agreement with “no lawyers” and “dignity and respect” quickly turned into a 4 year nightmare that devastated everyone involved (except of course the lawyers). There was no guide written for a man to help me prepare for what I was about to go through (financially, mentally, physically)

I’m not a lawyer.  Just a father that suffered through a disastrous divorce and can help men like you avoid the mistakes I made.  And boy did I make a lot of mistakes.  If you can apply any of the advice I’m about to share with you to your situation, I guarantee you are going to save yourself major time and financial headache, and probably most importantly, save your child from the devastation that comes with divorce.  

When It Comes To Divorce Law and You -

Here Are The Facts

• Over 85% percent of divorces are filed by women.  Women know the laws favor them in a divorce.

• Most women file for divorce simply because they're unsatisfied (not because of infidelity or abuse).  Most suffer from a case of "the grass is greener on the other side" complex.

• It's a documented fact that divorce is one of the most stressful things a person can experience (of course I don't have to tell you that).  Most of the stress is caused by all the uncertainty about the future.  Understanding the intricacies of divorce and custody will end the uncertainty and relieve the stress. 

• Too many men walk away from their wife and their assets too.  The goal here is to divorce your wife, not your money, house, or kids! 

• It's a documented fact the kids do better after a divorce when the father has sole or joint custody.  Children suffer when restricted to limited contact with their father.

• It's a fact that less than 2% of custody disputes ever make it to trial.  The system is specifically designed to grind fathers down before the case can be heard by a judge. 

• 65% of clients report dissatisfaction with their divorce attorney (more than any other type of attorney).  Odds are, you'll be one of them if you're not careful.  Don't rely solely on your attorney to get you the best deal.

• In many cases, the mother pushes the father away from the children by filing false abuse claims or interfering with visitation.  This is known as "parent alienation syndrome".  The courts are apathetic to this and often do little to stop it.

Learn From My Painstaking Loss, Valuable Lessons and Sound Advice

First and foremost, I'm a father. A divorced father. Secondly, I'm a successful businessman.  I've spent over 30 years in business and have a knack for getting things done.   This is what I’ve done for you.  I’ve used my business skills to create an “action guide” for men going through a divorce.  I've sold over a thousand of my guides to men just like you who want a fighting chance to win. 

I wrote a detailed book and set of audio tapes about everything I personally learned and after interviewing over 20 men. I wrote the book because I knew I could help men avoid the costly mistakes that I made. I'm not kidding around with you - I learned all this stuff the hard way. You won't find this kind of information in any other book - I guarantee it.

One single piece of advice that I can impart upon you can save you thousands of dollars.  I guarantee this.  This is a no-risk deal. If you don't like my book, simply return it and pay zero.  

The book is called “Divorced Dad’s Survival Guide". What Every Man Should Know About How To Survive a Divorce”.  I've also created an audio series for you to listen on your IPod, car, etc.   This is the guide i wish someone had created for me when I was going through my divorce.

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Divorce Resources

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How To Win Child Custody. --- How To Win Child Custody By The Custody Coach - Proven Strategies That Can Win You Custody And Save You Thousands In Attorney Costs! Overcome The Learning Curve Of A Divorce And Child Custody Battle That Can Cost You A Fortune And Even Your Children!

Divorce Decision. --- Breakthrough Resource To Help Women Who Are Unhappy In Marriage Make A Careful Decision.

How Do I Tell The Kids About The Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide. --- This Unique Book Doesnt Just Tell You What To Say -- It Says It For You! Fill-in-the-blank Templates Show Parents How To Create A Storybook With Family Photos And History To Simplify This Tough Conversation. With Therapist Advice. Professionally Endorsed.